Dear TJ's mom,
I wanted you to know that you have been on my heart, especially since receiving his referral. Steve and I are giddy with excitement and can't wait to hold him and be his parents. We pray for him every day.
But I would be dishonest if I didn't admit that amidst our joy and anticipation, I know that you are out there mourning. I can't imagine what your grief must be like, and I'm so sorry for the pain that you must be feeling. I want you to know how much I appreciate you and all that you went through and are experiencing right now.
From the evidence that I have about you through TJ's lab work and the doctor's evaluation, you loved the lives that were inside you. You took great care of yourself, probably knowing that you would be giving him away.
The pieces of the story that I've heard breaks my heart for you in such a profound way. You went to a hospital, you delivered twins and your baby girl passed in God's arms. You left your deceased baby girl and your baby boy in that hospital, without a trace. My assumption is that you prayed that by doing so, your little boy would have the opportunity to grow and learn and live without the threat of constant destitution.
I know you are out there. God knows that you are out there. I want you to know that I think of you often. I pray for you. I want you to know that as we sit here an ocean and continent away, that we love your little boy so much. We feel so blessed to have this opportunity to love him and guide him as his parents. We are far from perfect and we don't have every material thing one could imagine, but we have huge hearts and a strong love for our Lord. Steve and I know that we were meant to be TJ's mom and dad, but we do this knowing that a huge sacrifice was made for us to be able to have this blessing in our lives, your sacrifice.
Please know that you hold a special place in my heart, and I know that you have a strong place in TJ's heart too. In our eyes, we will always hold you in the highest regard for your courage and unselfishness. We know your little girl is with Jesus, and we hope that while TJ is on this earth, we will raise him with tons of love, laughter, and a strong faith in God. We want him to know that although he may mourn the loss of you in his life, that God has a plan for him, just as He does for all of us. This pain is a part of who he is and who he will become; we just feel blessed to play this role in the story.
Thank you. We love you. I pray that God gives you a peace as you walk your days here on earth like the rest of us, that your little boy is loved and cherished so very much.
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